Relationships, it seems, nowadays are at their own whole new level of description, in fact ,they are more of undefined; or rather they exist, yet, are non-existent. Don’t get me wrong here, I am not by any way trying to be cynical like a pessimist; I am merely being a realist here. I refuse to call a situation where – a very sane man and an equally sane lady meet only when they have sexual needs to be met – a relationship. It seems that these days sex trumps intelligence and has surpassed commonsense.

What happened to the proper days when a couple would enjoy spending quality time together to get to know and appreciate each other better? What happened to the days when dates were precious, exciting and to be longed for? What happened to the days when men were powerful rigorous hunters that would mark their preferred prey, vigilantly watch over them and in due time, strike them without any draw-backs whatsoever? Where did the pride, the delicate ego vanish into?

I know you have a thousand and one excuses right know. Blame it on the tight job schedules; on the lack of enough time to spend together; on the inevitable thing called change……blame it on whatever you want to! I still disagree completely. I am no prude, but I struggle to understand. Have women actually abandoned their ‘hard-to-get’ title thereby allowing men to become too lazy to pursue them? It certainly makes you wonder what the future holds.

It’s embarrassing that couples are more of slimy snails enclosed in perfectly appealing shells. How many even know the second names, or the real name of their sexual partners? How many even recall their faces after a one-night stand? This is desperation and recklessness at its best.

Ladies, real men still love the hard-to-get type, they still love to sweat for their prey, they still crave that adrenal testosterone rush that comes with wanting what you haven’t gotten; it excites every ounce of their beings so much, they’d do anything for you. Ladies, you are the most powerful beings…but only before you let them have a taste of your cookie, then you become just some passing wind. The scales that judge men and women are obviously different. So, ladies, if you want to be treated like queens again, it’s all on you. Spin that dismantled web!!